Books Talk

 The most effective way for successfully communicating with others and achieve the desired result “All violence is the result of people tricking themselves into believing that their pain derives from other people and that consequently those people deserve to be punished…Every criticism, judgment, diagnosis, and expression of anger is the tragic expression of an unmet need.” -Dr. Marshall B. Rosenberg. The book was written by Marshall B. Rosenberg, and provides us with very powerful mental tool to handle complex communication problems, and achieve a win-win result.  Key summary of the book: 1. What's nonviolence communication Nonviolent Communication (NVC Nonviolent Communication), also known as the "language of love", comes from Mahatma Gandhi's belief that love comes naturally after violence subsides. Oftentimes, we don't realise the way we talk is "violent," but our words do often cause pain to ourselves and others.  The author discovered a way of comm...

The most effective way to help child develop responsibility, self-discipline, cooperation and problem-solving skills There are many parents who feel that the child has become a particularly family problems, and they feel irritating and helpless. For example, the child likes watching TV, the child likes to eat snacks, the child is inattentive when doing homework, the child is behaving against the parents, the child is addicted to games, and so on. Today we are going to talk about book by Jane Nelson, called "Positive Discipline". It will greatly help parents who are struggling in teaching and parenting children. The author Jane Nelson has seven children and is a grandmother or great-grandmother of 18 children, so she has a lot of parenting experience and her children are very successful. Throughout this book, the key takeaway is being kind and firm to your children. If we can bring a gentle and firm parenting environment to the children, and let the children know clearly t...